Dirt is dirt and we’re mud.
It’s likely unless we’re shut that as we get older issues will expand.
There was a clue I heard once:
“Older men carry out what younger men think will take too much time.”
As if to say, our mind grows, not shrinking; We are not a spending model but an expanding wonder we must learn to share.
Be prepared for bigger and bigger stuff to think.
This is part of why relations are challenging. It’s not always that our mates, friends and allies are less than we had hoped, but also that when we were younger we asked so much less and were pleased in any case.
My word for the day, today, ‘tolerance’.